Thanks Holly! The key is communication and not just assuming it’s OK to do this. I feel that porn and some smut normalize this behavior so that men often see it as a part of a generally acceptable sexual practice. I simply cannot agree with that. It’s no more generally acceptable than SM. I have nothing against SM if people enjoy it but just because some enjoy it you cannot jump to the conclusion that everyone does or should enjoy it. SM is definitely NOT for everyone, just like force fucking into one’s throat isn’t. It happened to me more than once to me that men forcefully pushed my head down on their penis and I don’t see that as normal or generally acceptable behavior.